HOW TO MAKE DATES FEEL LESS LIKE JOB INTERVIEWS
Ugh, we've all been there! Somewhere along the way, (probably after the 10th ghoster) we lose the hope and magic that dating can bring and it becomes, well a boring, draining process!
👉 We either feel like we're being interviewed and evaluated for role of partner (and found lacking)
👉 Or we want to cut to the chase and find out if they want marriage, kinds, the picket fence and find out if there the one
The. Romance. Dies.
SO, how can we keep the magic alive and make dates feel less like job interviews? Here are a few quick fire ideas!
➡️ Take a break between work and said date to move you to a whole new energy
➡️ Plan your environment accordingly. There's a huge difference in the atmosphere between a quick coffee shop date, a bar, an activity and a walk in the park. So decide on what would suit you best and be aware of the the dynamic. For example a coffee shop date will allow you to talk and get to know each other, but it might lack in the romance department!
➡️ Stop scouting for red flags and focussing on what's wrong, or trying to work out if they're the one. Slow down, focus on the connection, listen and ask questions
➡️ You can ask the big questions, but you can bring a bit of playfulness and humour to it, rather than ticking them off the list
➡️ Don't be afraid to flirt!
If you'd like some further help on any of these points, then check out my flexible, self-study dating course, Become A Dating Ninja!
Available for July & £99, it's designed to help you transform how you feel about dating AND how you're approaching it.
What you get…
❣️ Three course modules to help you transform your confidence and standards so you stop settling for less and call in the relationship you deserve
❣️ Bonus module on Communication from a Guest Expert
❣️ Weekly lessons, worksheets, meditations, practices AND additional resources with Caitlin which provides a step by step guide to rewrite your story around dating & relationships.
❣️ Flexible self-study modules designed to be done in your own time.
❣️ Option for discounted 1:1 coaching
This course will allow you to…
👉 Dial down limiting beliefs you have about yourselves and others
👉 Embrace the mindset that means dating will feel light and hopeful
👉 Let go of feeling left behind and create a life that feels magic, stepping into trust and patience
👉 Harness your magnetic dating confidence through Queen Energy
👉 Put the play and fun back into dating
👉 Implement rock-solid boundaries that will stop you from settling…
👉 Learn how to communicate without it feeling like a job interview
👉 Figure out what you REALLY need, rather than what you think you want…
👉 Be able to spot and walk away from red flags
👉 Learn how and where you meet people IRL
👉 Approach dating apps so they don’t burn you out… (If you want to use them)Ugh, we've all been there! Somewhere along the way, (probably after the 10th ghoster) we lose the hope and magic that dating can bring and it becomes, well a boring, draining process!
