How to beat the comparison trap and take the timeline pressure off!
This week a common theme has come up on client calls - and that is how the fear of judgment/ rejection and comparison hold us back when making big moves in life. Wrapped into this is the idea that time is running out, and suddenly life can feel like a big pressure cooker. We're comparing ourselves to where others are, whilst feeling like we're behind (not true).
Probably because now we're into October and shops are starting to sell Chrimbo bits, the end of the year feels like it's looming.
We all have vague notions of how life will look, and what milestones will be reached, in what time (usually husband, house, secure job and possibly babies). And if it doesn't happen by the ‘scary age’ we've built up we can start to panic!
SO, as it's such a huge topic, and one that used to keep me up at night, whilst I addictively swiped on the ole apps, I wanted to pop down a few options, so you can take back control and start to feel blaaady great about your journey and story.
Because there’s nothing worse than wanting something, but wanting it out of fear, desperation and because you think it’s where you ‘should be’.
When we’re coming from that place, as a general rule, good things don’t always happen [cue: attracting people who don’t want to commit, settling, trying to rush the process and sabotaging it, plus A LOT of anxiety]. Instead we want you happy, thriving and genuinely considering what you want and don't want!
Secondly, if you're feeling the timeline pressure badly, ESPECIALLY when it comes to your love life, at the moment, I also have a bad boy masterclass on: How To Let Go Of Timelines & Create A Life of Magic
👉 This is your practical, action packed Masterclass that will help stop worrying about the ‘when’ and ‘how’ and ‘who’ so you can let go of the timelines and pressure, and trust that you are exactly where you’re meant to be! You can check it out and sign up here
👉 My client did the exercise included in the masterclass recently, and was finally able to admit to herself that she saw travel and campervanning in her future, rather than sprogs, which is blaady amazing!
Thirdly, If you'd rather chat privately about this, here's a shameless reminder that this is the last time you will be able to work with me before Summer 2025.
👉 This is for the person who wants structured 1:1 support to work on the key areas that will help them move forward, but needs less of a time and financial commitment.
👉 It’s still private 1:1 coaching and tailored to exactly what you need, just shorter! You get access to the Masterclass bundles, meditation bundles and WhatsApp support throughout.
If you'd like to know more, please reply to this email or book a free call here
