Once upon a time, every New Year I’d make a resolution that finally my romantic luck would turn and everything would slot into place. I’d quietly tell myself that “this is THE year” and I’d go on my merry way,  hopeful and happy. I’d also make the usual resolutions about being kinder to myself, losing weight yada yada. 

However, as the weeks passed, nothing would change. Familiar patterns would emerge and I’d carry on dating in the same way, getting the same results. Those pesky anxious thoughts would creep back in, and my inner critic would pop back up. Then the commitment would be replaced by anxiety that it wouldn’t happen, or disappointment would lead to romantic ambivalence, and I'd start telling myself I didn’t care anyway.  

Sound familiar? 

Thought so! After years of coaching (firstly myself and then other amazing people) I’ve come to realise that if you want different results, you have to be prepared to try something new. 

SO, this year, let’s harness the hope and fresh start that the new year brings but combine it with positive action! And let’s have fun.  

I want to help you put your best foot forward with embracing love, so you can finally ditch the disappointment and strut into 2023 empowered and hopeful. I want you showing up on dates with ease and confidence, clear on what you’re looking for and who you're compatible with. I want you to become your own biggest cheerleader, so you no longer compromise your standards and boundaries and settle for breadcrumbs. I want you to feel like laughing rather than crying when a nosy family member quizzes you about your love life. And most of all, I want you to recognise your self-worth, so you no longer feel like there is ‘something wrong with you’’. 

And whilst that’s not an overnight fix, I want to set the groundwork for you to create real change in your love life, and set you up for the rest of 2023.