Proof dating is NOT about the way you look

Loved this story from the weekend! 

My client picked up a guy when she was sober, with no makeup on and sweaty from an assault course. 

The old her would have looked perfect, been dressed up to the nines, drank five wines and still not talked to him because she felt not good enough. 

This is proof that attraction and meeting people is NOT about the way you look, your age, your job, or whatever other story you’ve been telling yourself. 

It’s about the energy you bring to the table, the self-respect, the quiet confidence of liking who you are. 

So, rather than focusing on the outside, get working on what really matters. My client’s been digging deep into self-worth, celebrating who she is and generally giving less f*cks! 

And I want you to take this lesson away. 

Because YOU, covered in grime make-up free and not caring is SO much more attractive than someone who is horrible to herself, moulds herself to others or shuts people down. 

This is why the underlying theme throughout my coaching programme, Leading in Love is ALL about increasing self-respect, finding out just how unique and wonderful you are, and changing your energy up. 

This is no longer about having to ‘find’ love or ‘get’ someone. This is about YOU realising YOU are the bloody prize. 

It’s time we shouted it from the rooftops.