👉 A gentle reminder that the 4 day Jan challenge: Your Romantic Rewrite closes tomorrow (31st Jan) evening. If you want to draw a line under the past and start afresh, then check out the details here. Once signed up, you have access for a year! 

 

ANYWAY, on another note, this blog is allll about what it actually takes to choose someone who is great for us. Usually, we’re convinced we know who we want to end up with. What they’re going to look like, who they’ll be, what we’ll do together. 

 

But as the dating guru Logan Urgy says, “you think you know what you want, but you’re usually wrong.”

 

The truth is, more often than not, we pick people based on unconscious templates and patterning, rather than the understanding of who we are, our values, and what we need. 

 

So, it makes sense then, in order to understand who is right for you, you first have to understand yourself. Your values, your vulnerabilities, your strengths, your history, your patterns. 

 

Dating, without this, is like trying to drive at night without the lights on. You might get there eventually, but it’s a hellavu lot harder (not to mention, bloody dangerous). 

 

We have to put the puzzle pieces together, so you understand who you are as a whole, delicious person

 

Which is partially what inspired me to create the January challenge. We spend two days figuring out your values, what you need, and most importantly we do a full inventory of your romantic past and patterns. (Plus another two days getting clear on your overall 2024 vision + creating space for it)

 

By shining a light on this, you get a fresh perspective, and a fresh start for romance in 2024. 

 

If you'd like to learn more, you can check out the details, or sign up HERE

 

This challenge will…

✅ Allow you to have a fresh start when it comes to love and learn more about yourself

✅ Give you the space to really think about what you want in 2024 (romantically and otherwise) so you get clear on your priorities and make empowered decisions to reach these goals

✅ Get to know yourself and your values, so you are clear on who you want to bring into your life

✅ Hold you accountable for what hasn’t worked so far, and what might be holding you back, so you can take clear, practical steps going forward

✅ Help you physically and emotionally create the space to welcome love into your life

✅ Leave the past (or your ex) behind in 2023

 

This is for people who...

❣️ Are excited to call love in for 2024 and feel like it’s their time

❣️ Are bored of making new year's resolutions that don’t stick

❣️ Are ready to get clear on their romantic vision and learn about themselves

❣️ Want to figure out who they should be dating in line with their values

❣️ Are willing to take new steps to create change (rather than just hoping a relationship happens)

❣️Want to step into the new year hopeful and happy, leaving any feelings of romantic disappointment behind

P.S I'm HOME this week and back at work on Monday!! If you fancy a no strings attached call about making some changes this year, you can book yourself in HERE. 

 

Can't wait to speak to you!