Self-love alone isn't gonna get you the relationship. You need this too đ
Ever heard the phrase âYou canât love anyone else until you love yourselfâ and rolled your eyes.
Yup I get it. Some of you will be sitting there thinking I do love myself and I think Iâm pretty fooking great, but the relationship still isnât following.
Well for me there is a distinction between self-love AND self-respect, and we need both.
Self-love means you care for yourself and treat yourself kindly. It means you accept yourself unconditionally (even when you eff up) and you recognise that you are valuable, whole and enough. It also means youâre not reliant on a partner to feel fulfilled, worthy and reassured.
Self-respect on the other hand is about how you treat yourself and expect to be treated by others. This means you set boundaries, you speak up and tell people what you want and how you feel. You donât let people mess you around and tolerate behaviour that undermines your self-worth.
Both come with their challenges but both are vital in creating happy, healthy relationships (with yourself and others).
Nail them both and not only will you feel a million dollars, but youâll be a little magnet for available, normal, great people.
And before we go any further, this is not an easy âlive, laugh, loveâ course where we talk flowery language about self love. Taught in two stages, GLOW will give you proven therapeutic & coaching tools needed to create long term change and take action.
Phase 1: Challenge & Change Your Thoughts. Learn the techniques to reduce & manage critical and anxious thinking, and increase positive, balanced thinking.
Phase 2: Challenge & Change Your Behaviour. Build an evidence based positive view of yourself through action and stepping out of your comfort zone.
In other words youâll learn the tools to help yourselfâŠ
đ Manage the inner voice that tells you youâre not good enough or thereâs something wrong with you
đ Become your own cheerleader and feel secure, content and happy
đ Understand yourself, so you can accept, love & treat yourself well
đ Set boundaries with friends, family, colleagues and romantic partners
đ Be able to say ânoâ when you want to, rather than âyesâ all the time
đ Push yourself out of your comfort zone
GLOW IS FOR YOU IFâŠ
đ«Friends think you have it all together, but you feel a little lost, lonely and like something is missing
đ«You get overwhelmed with doubts and self-critical thoughts which makes you feel anxious and unhappy
đ« You feel inadequate in certain areas of life - whether itâs with your partner, on dates, at family gatherings, when out with friends
đ« Youâve stopped taking risks like moving cities, travelling alone, falling in love, taking that job, speaking up, but you feel ready for a bigger life!
You can check out all the info HERE and if youâre still not sure, you can book a quick call with us! Just email me back and Iâll get it set up.