I was talking to Carly-Ann recently (our Pod is coming back pre mat leave!) about how prior to meeting my husband, I’d never had a relationship, so my experience of heartbreak was a little different to hers. 

 

I might never of had ‘the big break up’, but instead I’d had a sh*t tonne of mini heartbreaks - or as I think about them, the papercuts of the dating world. 

 

Usually because of circumstances like: 

👉 A big fat series of failed situationships

👉 Dates that had soooo much potential but never got off the ground

👉 Making it 3 months with the unavailable guy, for it to blow up in my hopeful little face 

 

Basically a series of draining disappointments, where each time I would be forced to pick myself back up again, let go of the hope and potential, all whilst thinking that the hell is wrong with me. I can still feel the pain in my tummy when I think about them. 

 

And this went on for 10 years. 

 

Until the ghoster that broke the camel’s back and I’d had enough, and I finally looked at the driving forces and behaviour that I could change (but that’s one for another day). 

 

SO I wanted to say that if you haven’t had a big relationship or ending, I understand how much these million mini heartbreaks can wear you down. That it can be just as exhausting as a but you often don’t get the recognition from it. And perhaps for some reason you don’t think your reactions and experiences are as valid. 

 

But they are. 

 

So repeat after me “I choose not to let the past determine the present and I trust that I am on the right path. 

 

Be kind to yourself and keep going, because you are a bloody rockstar, and you deserve the world. Give yourself a hug from me and remind yourself of how far you’ve come. 

 

In other news, I’m absolutely thrilled to announce that the doors for Leading in Love are now open. All details here. 

 

This is the Live 10 week bootcamp where we shine a light on your love life. Why do we get the results we do? How can we act from a more empowered place and create real change? How can we bring the hope and joy back to dating again? What needs to happen so I can call love in, quicker? 

 

It’s designed to kick your love like up a gear and get you out of your comfort zone.

 

We start 9th September and there until the 18th August, the course is £545, with a three month payment plan available. 

 

This is the only intake over the next year, so please do come and have a chat if you’d like to find out more. 

 

So if you would like to book a no-strings attached call, book yourself in HERE for a discovery call and we can chat through what options might work for you.