Let's be honest, dating and the process of ‘finding’ love, can be a blaaady rollercoaster at points. 

The excitement of a new potential romance can quickly be followed by losing hope a little bit (or it was for me!), especially in those high trigger moments. Watching someone else get engaged, seeing your best mate have a baby, or of course when Auntie Brenda asks about your love life over Christmas dinner. 

It doesn't always feel easy, and when left to run riot, our thoughts can quickly spiral and hyper focus on the negative of the situation. Which means… 

 👉 It impacts your mood & vibe

👉 A low vibe doesn’t attract the high vibe you deserve

👉 It prevents you taking action because “what is the point”

👉 You become fixated on what you don’t have and you miss your life

SO, I say it's time to focus on bringing back your happiness and finding ways to make dating fun again, when you're ready. 

As believe it or not, in order to attract a relationship that feels fun, inspiring and secure, we have to create this in your dating life before hand.  

So here are a few ways to make dating empowering, fun and hopeful

1️⃣ Surround yourself with inspo - if we feel like the odd one out (e.g all our mates are coupled up) then it's easy to lose sight of just how normal and amazing this is! So follow inspiring insta accounts, look up celeb role models who have a different path.  

2️⃣ Dream bigger for your life and get excited for it. Create your vision and goals and remember that dating is ONE part of your life, not the whole thing. 

3️⃣ Take yourself on dates - we can't save getting dressed up and doing nice things for someone else. Date yourself. Get to know yourself. 

4️⃣ Look outside of dating apps and give them a break if burned out - they're ONE way to meet people, and don't have to be relied on (I break this down in my Masterclasses!) 

5️⃣ Do the mindset work so you can approach dating from a place of learning, growth and curiosity 

6️⃣ Look for evidence that love can happen at any point and how it could just be around the corner

7️⃣ Step into expansive energy by using gratitude work, visualisation and anything else high vibe that makes you feel good! 

8️⃣  Embrace being single. You can't change it at this second, so you can either fight it, or embrace it. 

9️⃣ Remember that you are exactly where you're meant to be, and what is meant for you, will not miss you 

 C x